Thursday, December 31, 2020

Guaranteed Tomorrow

 

Last year as we bid farewell to 2019 and greeted 2020 with lots of hope and dream filled eyes, none of us knew what 2020 had in store for us. Little did we know that the alien words like corona virus and covid-19 will be the most commonly used words so much so that it comes out of kindergarten kid’s mouth fluently. Wearing a mask which used to be a fashion accessory will become mandatory part of outfit and lockdown which used to be in history came out to be present day scenario.

The pandemic took over the world crashing livelihood of every individual; laid off from job, bankrupt business, orphaned kids, untimely dismissal were no extraordinary for 2020. Rather busy streets started giving off eerie vibes filled with faint rustles of fallen leaves and barking sounds. Festive seasons and celebratory days ended up reminiscing how it used to be during those occasions and students ended up sitting more in front of screen than sitting in classroom.

As the pandemic took troll over the world, Bhutan was no exception as rest of the world. Though many large countries fell prey to covid-19 sooner, a small kingdom of Bhutan managed to keep local transmission of the virus at bay until recently. Even if there is onset of local transmission, it is rather minimal comparing to the rest of world and it can be contained. This is solely attributed to the dynamic and foresighted leadership of King, hardworking government, selfless volunteers/ frontliners and an exemplary cooperation from general public.

Covid-19 made daily life stagnant but it also brought a period of retrospection and self-reflection. It made me realize how I took everything as granted; be it my relationship with family, friends and the job. I failed to cherish their preciousness and kept wrestling and juggling myself with trivial issues. As much as I took those things granted, I lacked self-love, I tend to exhaust myself being self-conscious of how I should behave and what people might say. I am too focused on others that I lost myself.

Covid-19 and 2020 in general instilled the fact that there is no GUARANTEED TOMORROW very vividly. I learned that being alive and having a family who would call to check how my day went, having circle of friends whom I can share my concerns, jokes and laughs, having a job that provide me with platform to learn new things were the real luxuries I am blessed with. It is okay to be not perfect, it is okay to take a breather and it is okay to take life little less seriously. Being present, loving yourself and holding your relationships dear is what you need to do today because we are never sure about tomorrow.

I hereby say good bye to 2020 with more maturity, vigilance and gratefulness, thank you for all the lessons. With a resolution to live life more positively, brightly and lovingly, I welcome you 2021, please be gentle and bless the world with healing, remedy and normalcy. A very happy new year!!!